I’ve been wanting to get a picture of the four of us to put up in our house to replace the picture without Haley, and we also wanted a Christmas card picture. It is tough to schedule a photo shoot between Jim’s schedule and naptimes, but we managed. The weather cooperated too! I paid a high school student who I had as a seventh grader to come take our pictures. We are very happy with the results! It is so hard to get a decent picture of an infant… I am just happy she was awake and isn’t all flopped over. 🙂
So it Begins
I love Black Friday. It is the official start of the Christmas season. I was not tempted at all to put up my decorations when it started snowing earlier in the week because I have my own little traditions for Black Friday.
First, I go shopping. I didn’t go crazy, but I did arrive at the mall at 5:30 with Starbucks in hand. I hit Sears and Macy’s and the OH MY GOSH 50% off everything at GAP sale. The best part there was listening to everyone ask the salespeople clarifying questions, “Um, is this 50% off too?” and “Just checking… is it 50% off everything? Even this?” The poor employees kept smiling and saying, “Yes. Everything. All of it. Whatever the price is on the tag, cut in half.” I got Haley a ton of clothes that I absolutely love. And now we have matching jeans. 🙂
Next Target and Bed Bath & Beyond, and then I headed home. When I got home, Jim had Christmas music playing and the house lights on, and hot breakfast on the table. Gotta love that man!
Then we settled in to watch Iron Bowl (Alabama v Auburn… we don’t want to talk about it). While we watched, JT helped me stamp the Christmas cards. He honestly peeled off every single stamp and handed it to me for 60 cards.
After the game, JT got to play with his new nativity set (thanks, Grandma Keene!) and Jim and I started on the tree.
But JT wanted to help, so he got to hand me the ornaments. He only dropped one. 🙂
Finally, I got started on the rest of the house. I ordered Haley’s stocking in plenty of time so it would be ready with the rest of ours. I adore our stockings. They make me smile.
I usually wrap the presents and put them under the tree that day, too, but I opted to snuggle on the couch with Jim. I wrapped the presents on Saturday while he was at work instead. Now I can relax, enjoy the rest of the month, and bake my Christmas cookies.
Thanksgiving
It was a small group for Thanksgiving this year, but that was just as well… everyone has been sick! I got a cold three weeks ago and it snuck back on me, and JT and Haley have been stuffy and coughy. Then Jim came down with something horrible and my mom got bronchitis and a sinus infection. We made the most of our day anyway, and my dad did a great job taking over for my mom as kitchen assistant and baby holder. It was also our first Thanksgiving in a long time (ever?) with six inches of snow on the ground.

JT enjoying his slippers to keep his toes toasty warm

Haley spent the morning in her play mat
Three Months Old
Haley is now about 23 inches long and I think she weighs almost 10 pounds. Woo hoo! She is cooing and gurgling, loves to smile, and does not enjoy being on her tummy. Haley gave me a fabulous three-month-old present, too: she slept for 11 hours straight! At the ten hour mark I had to peek in her room and make sure she was still breathing… and I had to wake her up eventually because it was going to start making us late. Crazy!
It has taken a few different attempts to take her official three month pictures and I am still not thrilled with any of them. I get pictures of her smiling often but for some reason she doesn’t want to cooperate when I get my little in-home studio all set up. These are the best of about a hundred. 🙂

(What happened to my lighting? Grrr.)
JT came running in for one photo shoot (“whatcha doin guys?”) and wanted to help out. Pretty soon JT and Slider are sitting where Haley is supposed to be, Haley is screaming, Jim is laughing, and I gave up.
Snow!
It started snowing on Sunday and really hasn’t stopped since then! This morning JT was excited to check out the window when he woke up and see “what happened at my house?”
Today was grocery shopping day, and a little snow is not quite enough for me to get out of routine. So we bundled up and got in the Volvo. I am so glad that my friend Jen let me borrow her baby bunting. Haley stayed cozy warm inside her outfit all morning long!
When we got outside and I was dusting off the car and letting my seat heater do its job, JT stood and watched the snow fall. He did not want to touch it or catch it or play in it. “It’s cold,” he said, very matter-of-factly. He is happy to observe. I bet if his dad had been home, there would have been some more playing. 🙂
We made it to the chiropractor and two grocery stores in Winter Driving Mode and then came home. We opted out of gymnastics tonight, and I’m sooooo glad we did. It took Jim 5 fours to make the 35-minute drive home from work. Yuck!
Goodbye Mazda, Hello Volvo
THE STORY: Almost nine years ago, we bought our first “married” purchase: a new 2002 Mazda Protege. It had five miles on the engine, and it was my first ever car with a moon roof. We have loved our little Mazda. While not super spacious inside, it gets great gas mileage and fits our family of four. It has 155,175 miles on it and has never had a problem. (I scanned in this picture… try not to be jealous of my cool denim skirt.)
Then… two weeks ago, while driving on 405 to meet our friends at 3-2-1 Bounce, I had to come to a quick stop in the merge/exit lane. Unfortunately, the driver in the car behind me was distracted by a truck changing lanes and didn’t see us until it was too late for her to stop. I saw the car coming in my rearview mirror and said, “Oh my gosh!” and then she hit us. We got slammed into the car in front of us as well. I turned around and looked at JT and said, “Are you okay?” His lower lip quivered a little and then he said, “Yes.” I said, “Are you sure?” and he answered, “Yes. I okay.” Haley never woke up, snuggled in her car seat with a full tummy.
We pulled off the freeway and waited for the trooper to arrive. The woman in front of me left, as she said she had already been in another accident and was going to get her rear bumper replaced from that accident. The trooper asked if we were okay and took a report, and then we exchanged insurance information and went on our way to the bouncy house.
When we got home, I told Jim what happened and he looked over the car. I hadn’t realized there was so much damage. The rear bumper was dented in, the trunk bed was cracked and bubbled, the front bumper was pushed under the hood, and the grill was all cracked. “I wouldn’t be surprised if they total this,” he said. And he was right!
Jim took the Mazda to an auto shop and, when they popped the hood, there was oil all over inside the engine compartment. They assured us that we shouldn’t be driving the car and got us a sweet Camry for a rental.
The other driver’s insurance company admited fault right away. We got new car seats within four days. A few days later, we were haggling over dollar amounts for our settlement since we had to go buy a new car and we didn’t want to spend any money out of pocket. We spent three long days driving all over the greater Puget Sound area looking at cars. Do you know how much junk is out there for $6000? We actually looked at cars with oil leaks and engine coughs and mold growing in the carpet. Meanwhile, I’m seeing a chiropractor for neck/upper back/shoulder pain and am on the mend but still in a lot of discomfort.
Finally, we found a place called Tacoma’s Auto Shop. They had four cars in our price range and they were all beautiful. We came home and did some internet research and went back the next day ready to purchase something. After test driving a 2005 Ford Focus in amazing condition, we thought we’d found our car.
But then we saw it: a Volvo that they’d just gotten in on a trade. It hadn’t even been detailed yet, which made Jim happy because he was suspicious looking at these spotless vehicles. It was in great shape! We took it for a test drive and loved it. The owner of the shop offered to replace the front fog light that was cracked, repaint the entire rear bumper to repair the two paint flakes, and replace the window tinting on one window where it had been scratched. He had a deal!
We picked up our new (used) 2002 Volvo S60 T5 yesterday and so far we looooovvvvvve it. It is so fun to drive, thanks to the turbo, and the inside is super nice. My favorite function is that, if Jim drives the car and then I go to get in it and unlock it with my key fob, the driver’s seat and side mirrors automatically move back to where I like them. So cool!
It just turned 100,000 miles and we hope to get a lot more out of it. And as my friend Emrie pointed out, it’s hard to keep our children any safer than Britax car seats inside a Volvo. 🙂
Gymnastics Again
We’re back in action with gymnastics and it is so fun to see the huge difference in JT’s physical abilities since we stopped last spring for swimming lessons. He can follow the directions and move his body in lots of new ways. So fun! Obviously, I had to make a compilation video.
Power Outage
Today I was supposed to work but schools were closed due to the widespread power outages from last night’s windstorms. My mom had spent the night to babysit all day, so instead we had a nice family day with story time, a walk, and naps for all. 🙂 I think Haley was glad that I was home because she was super smiley!
Arts & Crafts
JT does a craft every week at church in his class and he is so proud to show it to us when he comes out. We make a big deal about it, too, and hang it up at home for the week. He has been having fun trying out some new art at home as well. This week he got to try markers for the first time. He loved them so much that he cried when we had to pick up for bedtime.
He plays with Playdoh often, but the new thing here is using alphabet cookie cutters to spell things and practice his letters. He can now recognize T, Z, and O. (At Costco, pointing to the letters on the side of the building: “Hey, T right there!”)
Sleep Training
We are big believers in the idea that children get many of their sleep habits from what we do after they are born. There are some things that come built right in, of course, but other things are created habits. We try to create sleepers who can sleep through things, like loud movies and fun times downstairs. JT will sleep through a tsunami. (Try as we might, however, he does wake up to the garbage truck every Thursday morning at 7:30… grrrr…) A friend commented a few weeks ago that she doesn’t use her Sonicare toothbrush in the mornings because she doesn’t want to wake up her children. I about died. And then Haley fell asleep in the middle of the kitchen floor on her playmat the other day, and I filmed this little clip. Let the training begin! 🙂







































